Today is a sad sad day.

I practically pulled teeth for a "mate" back home.
A job opportunity came up for him and I put his name forward. I said all the right things at the right time etc etc. (He is the right person for the job)
Anyway long story short he gets the job. All he has to do is go through the process of getting the visa and arriving here.
4 months later he has stopped talking to me after I asked him (I didn't pester him I promise) whats happening with his visa and if he needs help.
My dreams of having a person to talk to at work are shattered.
Even worse my hopes to have a friend to have a braai and talk kak with are down the drain..

Nearly four years on and
I still hate this place...... Loneliness is a bitch.
Maby it wouldn't be so bad if he just said, " I changed my mind" actually if he said anything at all it would be nice.
Oh well. Chin up. Move on. drink a cement pill and harden up... I think its time to write another letter.