If I may, yes, here anyway, the Sporsters are considered 'girly' HD's unless it is built to tilt with drag bars, e.g. the Forty-eight is more of a manly Sportster here.
Also, keep in mind, the Sportster engine is solid mounted. Fine for cruising at slow speeds and low mileage days but buzzy at highway speeds and long days.
Softails ride better than Sportsters but ground clearance is an issue if you're riding aggressively.
Touring models are rubber mounted, ride better, and built for short or long days in the saddle.
I'm a Fatboy or Fatbob fan for cruising.
Streetglide for a mix of cruising and touring.
Road Glide, Road King, or Ultra Classic for long distance touring.
Twin Cam 88 or newer engines run beautifully.
HD fuel injection is flawless and typically tuned to perfection from the factory, they don't suffer the poor on-off feeling like so many other F.I. bikes.
The fuel injected 103 cubic inch engine is fabulous, the Milwaukee 8 has slightly more power.
Indians however, shift better, have more power, and Imo, prettier, though I'd give HD the edge in paint quality.
Hope this helps.