2013 R suspension

[Rustynail]

Hi guys I have scrolled through all the posts but have not really found a definite answer yet.
My 990 was much more planted on the gravel than the 690, the front really does feel loose ( drifting)and none of the discussions really assisted me in sorting the issue.( She is fitted with a Omega Rally kit)
The read that rear, needs less dampening in order to make her give me a less bumpy ride and not loose a kidney.
I am about 110 kg with my kit and would appreciate some more clarity and insight.