I am really sorry to hear of your problems, it makes me angry as that bike is flippin expensive.. that is crazy.
It would leave a bad taste in my mouth as well.
I don't think I agree with you Grrr, I know many people who have bought bikes from Donford Stellies and they are very happy, I did a lot of research when I was looking for a 1200GS ADV and I would have been happy buying from them based on what I found out.. this is not good news though, I would have expected more from any dealership.
No way I would walk out of there without a new bike